Marriage is the absolute certainty of loving someone in such a way you would spend your whole life together. Divorce is the guilt summit where you hike to in the case that absolute certainty ends up turning into an absolute uncertainty. Love is worth a marriage. Mental health is worth a legal way out of social roles. Honesty the only way for both. The only certain thing is that obsession to control relationships lead nowhere fun. But then a better chapter comes with second chances. Time to grow up?